How Women Have Sex with Sex Dolls: A Woman’s Perspective

Men are not the only ones out there who enjoy the company of sex dolls. Many women out there also have them in their homes and enjoy them immensely.

What is a sex doll?

A sex doll is a surrogate human partner, a doll made in the likeness of an adult human being for the purpose of engaging in sexual intercourse. Sex dolls are anatomically correct and are often made from materials such as silicone, thermoplastic elastomer (TPE), fabric and of course vinyl. Sex dolls are no longer limited to the infamous “blow up” dolls that were very popular in the 1970’s. Now they look and feel so realistic, they are almost completely lifelike. Sex dolls also come in both genders of male and female and have the option to be customized into transgender dolls.

A woman with a sex doll

I have sex dolls in my home, all male, although at one time I had a female doll as well. My dolls are made of silicone, TPE and fabric. Once upon a time I also had a male foam mannequin and sex with all of them is highly enjoyable.

Having sex with a male silicone sex doll

My sexual experience with male silicone sex dolls has been one of the best experiences. The reason why I say that is because I prefer the most realistic dolls out there not just for looks, but also for feeling and experience. I like sex with dolls to be as close to the real thing with humans, as possible.

I have had sex with two different brands of male silicone sex dolls: A Sinthetics “Gabriel” and a RealDoll “Nick”. I had the most enjoyment with Gabriel for a few reasons. He was the most aesthetically pleasing to look at, as not only is he incredibly attractive, but he is also the most lifelike. He also felt the best, sexually.

There are two very good ways to have sex with a male silicone sex doll and the two positions that I have performed this were in the cowgirl position, at first with him lying in bed, and another time with him sitting in a chair. Both experiences were arousing, ending in blissful orgasms and complete satisfaction.

Before having sex with Gabriel and Nick, I had to attach their removable penis attachments. The process is quite simple, as all I needed to do was apply water-based lubricant on the nub at the base of the balls that fits into place in a small insert cavity on the lower pelvis of the silicone sex doll. I also applied lube to the inside of the cavity, so the insert just slips in.

After sex, removing the attachment is just as easy. Cleaning the attachment and the insert cavity is a must every time. I use a sex toy foaming cleanser from Wicked, rinse with cool water, dry with a hand towel and place it in a discreet place in my bedroom.

Having sex with a male TPE sex doll

I have two WM male sex dolls and sex with them is a bit like the male silicone sex dolls, as far as sex positions go. Silicone and TPE sex dolls are heavy, especially the male models, due to the sheer bulk of the masculine physique and the materials used. However, I did not have to primarily stick to the cowgirl sex position. I was also able to enjoy a very intimate sex session in the missionary position, having the male TPE sex doll laying on top of me.

Fun fact: I fulfilled a threesome fantasy with my male TPE sex doll and my husband. It was one of the most erotic experiences I have ever had! I laid my male TPE sex doll on the bed, on his back and straddled him in the reverse cowgirl position, slowly having him penetrate me anally, and when he was in, I laid back on his chest, as my husband assumed the missionary position, penetrating me vaginally. My orgasms had me shaking, due to the intensity.

TPE sex dolls are still highly realistic in appearance and feel, but not on the same level as silicone sex dolls. They are also a bit more fragile, as silicone sex dolls are more durable, as TPE sex dolls are more prone to damage, not just with the skeleton, but the actual TPE material itself. The reason is because TPE is softer that silicone.

Male TPE sex dolls also use the removable penis attachment system, but instead of a half round nub at the base of the balls, there is a long insert rod that runs vertically from the base of the dick and balls, covered in TPE that slides into an insert cavity at the base of the pelvis, slightly back toward the perineum area.

After sex removal and clean-up is also a must, as TPE is a porous material, so extra care in cleaning is a must. Also, since TPE is a tacky material, after drying and before storage, a light dusting with cornstarch or baby powder helps to cut down on the tackiness and add wonderful softness, in both the insert cavity and the actual penis attachment itself.

Having sex with a female TPE sex doll

My former female TPE sex doll was made from SY. She was a busty, sexy elf with a great ass that was made for spanking. She helped me fulfill another fantasy of mine, a bi-sexual fantasy with her and my husband. I had her lie on her back in the bed, her legs bent at the knees and opened, while I played with her breasts and performed oral on her vaginally, while fingering her vagina and anus. I was bent over the edge of the bed, hovering over her, while my husband entered me vaginally, from behind.

After sex clean-up of the vaginal and anal cavities is an absolute must with female TPE sex dolls, in which a mild soapy water douche can be inserted into the cavities to flush out any bodily fluids. Tampons or soft absorbent cloths can be inserted into the vaginal and anal cavities and carefully removed after the cavities are fully dried. Aquarium pumps and tubing is also another excellent way of drying out the cavities.

She and I also enjoyed several fun make-out sessions, just the two of us.

Having sex with a male fabric sex doll

I would have to say that having sex with a male fabric doll is the easiest because of the weight factor. Male fabric sex dolls are much lighter than their silicone and TPE counterparts, as they are stuffed with polyester fiber fill.

When I am ready to have sex with my male fabric sex doll, I grab one of my strap-on dildos from their storage bin and attach it through the O-ring on the O-ring strap-on harness boxer shorts that they wear, since they do not have insert cavities.

Missionary is possible with my male fabric sex doll, and it is my preferred position, because it is naturally very intimate. I also become highly aroused at the fact that a big, strong, six-foot-tall stud is dominating me in that position. We have also thoroughly enjoyed the standing version of missionary sex, where I am laying at the edge of the bed on my back, legs open, and I will have him standing with both feet on the ground, but also leaning over me, where I can grab onto his butt and pull him in deep.

Standing doggy-style, also at the edge of the bed is another highly enjoyable sex position with my male fabric sex doll. We have also had sex in the cowgirl position and another wonderful position: spooning. I love when I can wrap his arms around me and pull his chest to my back, feeling his face on the back of my neck. It is wonderfully intimate, but on a different level than missionary.

After sex clean-up is quick and simple. All I must do is remove the dildo from the O-ring harness, clean, dry and store it and simply redress him.

Having sex with a male foam mannequin

There is not much difference between sex with a male fabric sex doll and a male foam mannequin, except for the fact that the mannequin can stand upright on a chrome stand that attaches in the back, just above the waistline. Everything else is pretty much the same.

I chose the cowgirl position the most with my male foam mannequin because of the firm core of his body, which allowed a steadier “platform” for the dildo. When I say that, what I mean is that with a male fabric sex doll, the polyester fiber fill can sink in at times, which makes deep and full penetration a bit more of a challenge when in the cowgirl position.

During standing doggy-style sex, I would have to reach my arm around his waist from behind to create the thrusting sensations or have him positioned against the wall on the side of the bed that was nearest the wall, otherwise he would have fallen backward if I did not stabilize him as I rocked my hips back and forth. When we had sex in the standing missionary position, I simply wrapped my legs around his waist and grabbed hold of his butt to create the thrusting element.

Having sex with multiple dolls

There have been times when I have felt the desire so strong, that I have chosen to have sex with multiple sex dolls at once. Sex doll threesomes are just as exciting as human/sex doll threesomes but do require more work.

My favorite memory of this was the time when I had sex with my male TPE sex doll and my male fabric sex doll. I laid my male TPE sex doll on the bed on his back, straddling him in the reverse cowgirl position and carefully lowering myself down on him as he penetrated my anus. My fabric male sex doll was lying next to us on the bed and when I had become fully penetrated by my male TPE sex doll, I laid back on his chest, pulling my male fabric sex doll on top of me, my legs open, and had him penetrate my vagina. It wasn’t much later that I was experiencing an Earth-shattering, leg shaking, light-headed inducing orgasm, which was pure heaven for me.

So, as you can see, sex dolls are also highly enjoyed by women and not just men. Women enjoy sex with both male and female sex dolls as well.